Regards Positively Each Day

If your life feels like it is lacking the power that you want and the motivation that you need, sometimes all you have to do is shift your point of view.

By training your thoughts to concentrate on the bright side of things, you are more likely to have the incentive to follow through on your goals. You are less likely to be held back by negative ideas that might limit your performance.

Your life can be enhanced, and your happiness enriched, when you choose to change your perspective. Don't leave your future to chance, or wait for things to get better mysteriously on their own. You must go in the direction of your hopes and aspirations. Begin to build your confidence, and work through problems rather than avoid them. Remember that power is not necessarily control over situations, but the ability to deal with whatever comes your way.

Always believe that good things are possible, and remember that mistakes can be lessons that lead to discoveries. Take your fear and transform it into trust; learn to rise above anxiety and doubt. Turn your "worry hours" into "productive hours". Take the energy that you have wasted and direct it toward every worthwhile effort that you can be involved in. You will see beautiful things happen when you allow yourself to experience the joys of life. You will find happiness when you adopt positive thinking into your daily routine and make it an important part of your world.

鋼琴

那是個清新的早晨，在一棟豪華獨立式的房子裡縈繞著一段非常悠揚動人的鋼琴聲。彈鋼琴的周敏是個16歲，正值青春期但卻患上嚴重自閉症的女孩。

周敏來自一個極富裕的家庭。她的父母親在大家的眼裡是一對非常恩愛的模範夫妻。她父親是一間強大上市公司，為恩國際貿易集團背後的總裁，擁有17億的財產。她母親林琳則是巨富百貨公司老闆的獨生女，從小就嬌生慣養和養尊處優。

兩家人為了門當戶對和促進生意往來的關係下，促成了這段結婚。但是，他們之間卻沒有任何的感情 基礎。而周敏的父親周慶星在婚前其實已經有一個很要好的女朋友，但是在家人的反對下被迫分手，與林琳結婚。而林琳則是在婚後才清楚的知道她並不是她先生所 愛的人。所以，這段人人稱羨的金童玉女的婚姻其實是個假象。

周慶星曾經試著對林琳投入感情，但是感情是不能勉強的，他實在受不了林琳的大小姐脾氣。但其實林琳會對周慶星無故發脾氣和責難，也是因為她無意間發現她先生心中所愛另有其人。就這樣的惡性循環下，他們的婚姻生活在結婚後的短短兩個月就已出現問題。即使後來林琳懷了周敏，周慶星始終對這個家不聞不問，時常夜夜笙歌。林琳也因為這樣，在生下週敏後，也早出晚歸。夫妻兩人是十幾年來就過著貌合神離的婚姻生活。

就這樣，周敏在這麼一個不健全的家庭裡長大。負責照顧她的是不斷更換的保姆，最久的保姆也只做了半年。因為保姆們都受不了林琳的壞脾氣，主動請辭。

周敏從小就不愛講話。家庭醫生告訴她的母親有關周敏罹患自閉症，得對她多加關心和照顧。但是林琳仍然放不下她心中對周慶星的恨，進而把怨恨轉移到她與周慶星所生的女兒──周敏身上。所以，她始終不理會周敏的事。

沉默的周敏對音樂很有興趣。無師自通的她，從7歲開始，就已經能在家裡客廳擺著的白色三角鋼琴上彈奏出許多動人的音樂。而有自閉症的她，更時常把彈鋼琴當作抒發感情的一種方法。她覺得在聽著彈鋼琴所發出的琴聲的同時，也是在和鋼琴“說話”。

直到有一天，她正從房間出來，打算和鋼琴“說話”時，發生了一件非常驚人的事情。鋼琴上的琴鍵竟自己彈奏了起來！啊，這是多麼不可思議的事情！但是它卻發生了。而周敏，竟然一點也不感到害怕，反而很興奮的覺得她終於有“朋友”了。

周敏憑著她對琴聲的認識，她竟然知道那段“自彈”的鋼琴彈奏出來的琴聲所要表達的意思。而周敏也在琴鍵上“回答”著鋼琴問題。兩者在這寬廣的客廳裡“交談”了起來。

有一天，他們之間竟然有著很可怕的交談。

“我知道你很寂寞，但是你卻是個很堅強的女生，我願意和你分享你所有的喜怒哀樂！我願意做你的知己！”琴鍵自彈“說”著這句話。

“太棒了，真是謝謝你，我真的感到很空虛和寂寞！這世界上沒有人關心我，沒有人真正在乎我，我想，如果我不存在的話，他們應該會開香檳慶祝吧！”周敏彈著鋼琴回應著。

“那麼，我知道有個方法可以讓你更開心點，你願意相信你的好朋友我嗎？”琴鍵再次表達。

“願意啊，這世上只有你真正瞭解我了，我當然相信你！”周敏再次彈著鋼琴回應著。

“你拿著刀子來到鋼琴這裡來，然後往你的手腕上劃上深深的一道口，別擔心，剛開始有點痛，但是過一段時間，你就一點痛苦都沒有了，你就可以得到解脫了！”此時琴鍵所自彈的琴聲，感覺非常陰森。

周敏似乎已被催眠了。她竟然照著鋼琴所提議的做了。白色鋼琴的黑白琴鍵上頓時染成紅色。而白色鋼琴也成了紅色的。周敏小小的身軀附在黑白琴鍵上，就這樣在沒人知道的情況下血流不止而過世了。

林琳在傭人的通知下趕回家時，只能抱著她唯一可悲和可憐的女兒痛哭，但是一切都已經太遲了。

In Ideal and Reality Love

<In Ideal and Reality Love>

In ideal love, always wants to accompany frequently about the lover, listens to her to act like a spoiled brat, no matter what she deliberately creates trouble, inquires after the well being of with her, lets her add clothing to reduce the clothes ......Shares sorrow for him helps overcome difficulties, supplies ideas for him, prepares all for him ......
But in the reality we actually cannot the mornings and evenings, time accompanying, even separates the horizon. But “two sentiments, if is long-time time, also how can it be that in mornings and evenings”.

In ideal love, always wants to give own him or her most good life, best gift, most expensive accessories ......
But in the reality we actually not necessarily have that condition to allow us such to spend freely! But we in struggle diligently, for the more glorious future, for each other happy life!

In ideal love, always thought that two people are together joyfully, happy accompanying, has not quarrelled, harmonious coexistence ...... But in the reality we actually unavoidably fall into the convention, bickers for the trivial matters, is jealous for the minor matter, for individuality quarrel ......But we in the study tolerance, the academic society contain, our sentiment is wearing in!

In ideal love, always wants to look for a lover is the outstanding person phoenix, in man's outstanding person, in woman's high-quality goods ......But in the reality is actually outside the human has the human, outside the mountain has the mountain, cannot compare! But their lover in their eye actually forever are best, in sentiment person eye Xi Shi!

In ideal love possibly really always has the difference with the reality, ideal is happy, but the reality is brutal; But ideal perhaps suits you, but perhaps suits you is also not in your ideal, the choices in you, return the thoughts you!

真正的富贵

空蓝的醉人，海面风平浪静。

时间还是上午，一个老渔夫悠闲地坐在海边，一边抽烟，一边凝视着大海，
身旁是他的渔船。他看起来满足而自在，心中了无牵挂。

这时，一个大富翁走了过来。
富翁：“这么好的天气，你怎么坐在这里抽烟啊？”
老渔夫：“这么好的天气，为什么不坐下来抽烟？”
富翁：“这么好的天气，你不能坐下抽烟！”
老渔夫：“那我该干什么呢？”
富翁：“你应该抓紧时间出海打鱼。”
老渔夫：“我已经一大早出海回来了，打的鱼足够好几天的生活了。”
富翁：“那你也该抓紧时间再多多地出去几次，打更多的鱼。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后每天如此。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后你用赚来的钱，买一艘新船，租出去。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后赚很多的钱，买更多的船，赚更多钱……。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后你成功了，你就可以悠闲地坐在海边，抽一袋烟，享受人生！”
老渔夫：“你看我现在在做什么呢？”
富翁：……

这是一个早年听到的充满禅意的故事。
在这个高速竞争的时代，我们每天都面对着生存和发展的压力，
常常心力憔悴而疲惫不堪。可是我们是否想过，我们到底在追求什么？
一个人也许天天都在憧憬发大财、做大官、得大名望。
然后为了这些成功的辉煌，用辛苦和烦恼替换了一天天美好的光阴。
就这样，为了享乐，苦了一生。为了休息，忙了一生。
其实，人的一生，不该碌碌无为虚度光阴。只有知道追求美好的目标，
才是健康的人生心态。然而，既然追求的是美好，为什么要错过每一天当下的美好呢？
任何时候，是否快乐，关键看你对待世界的是一颗怎样的心。
有些时候，是否快乐，不是因为你拥有的多，而是因为你计较的少。
你快乐，你就是真正的富翁。

Friendship Priceless

“The friend like sea, makes the boat tolerantly, goes boating in the sea, broad Fang Zhihai; The friend like mountain, tolerant is a diameter, follows the diameter mountaineering, big Fang Zhishan; The friend opens heart, hands over, but intimate, has mutual affinity, side intimate this noble.”

Human's life has several intimate friends rarely, perhaps some people said that not, I have many intimate friends. Perhaps you to them are the sincerity, but were they and you equally are unknown to them. I see many surfaces very good to resemble with a person, but was actually in secret you said that I was not I said you were not right, I thought that such might as well did not make friend's good.

Thought that I was also quite lucky, when school had the getting along well friend. Participated works has let me run into an I specially grateful friend, although said that our disposition differed 108,000 great distances. She belongs is very lively, very talkative that kind, but I actually am the disposition introversion, bad conversation. So long as but both of us to had together could not say the words, said listened to them for other colleagues not to believe that because they knew that my disposition, was that kind of possibility others says ten, I only then returned to a that kind of person, possibly also therefore let them think me not well close, but in fact my innermost feelings were not thought like this, but was with them in thought together could not speak anxiously, also did not know that was any reason. Speaks the truth, thinks including me strangely, I general and in not too familiar logical expression am specially few, always thought that does not have what words with them to be possible to extend, but first time met we with her to chat for one evening, really specially happy could have this kind of friend, had any words to be possible to say to her. But looks like a big elder sister in usually her same to look after me, my dependent mentality is specially heavy, does any matter always to think front some people are bringing, therefore each time has any matter she I to follow on the heels in front does, certainly I also know this not well, therefore I correct my this shortcoming as far as possible. I am a human who an emotion does not appear externally, no matter I to her am gratitude at heart how, I will not thanks always on the mouth, but actually because of other anything, but will be I thought that such words placed may not need at heart to take frequently said.

What intimate friend is really very rare, if you had this friendship easily do not destroy it.

Forever Friend

"A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out."

Sometimes in life, You find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty...Please do be so scare..

Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world
suddenly seem bright and full.

Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times.

If you turn and walk away, Your forever friend will follows ;
If you lose you way,Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.

And if you find such a friend,You feel happy and complete.
Because you need not worry, Your have a forever friend for life, And forever has no end.

Youth

Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind.

It is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees.

It is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of the emotions;

It is the freshness of the deep spring of life.

Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease.

This often exits in a man of 60, more than a boy of 20.
Nobody grows merely by the number of years; we grow old by deserting our ideas.

Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.

Worry, fear, self-distrust1 bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.

Whether 60 or 16, there is in every human being's heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what's next and the joy of the game of living.

In the center of your heart and my heart there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from infinite, so long as you are young.

When the aerials are down, and your spirit is covered with the snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you've grown old, even at 20, but as long as your aerials are up,to catch waves of optimism, there's hope you may die young at 80.

When he really leaves…

A friend said that pursued she very long that boy to marry today.

When he really leaves…I said how you did want, to like your five year you being aloof.

She said that she attended the wedding ceremony, the bride has been very attractive. The bridegroom is also very graceful.
Probably first time thought that he is also originally has the charm. How initially hadn't detected. She said that thought originally oneself has not fallen in love with him.

But exchanges ring's that moment in the happy pair, she has loved dearly. She said that saddest is not the human who you love does not love you, but was that likes you many year people turning around to depart.

When you saw that saying that liked you saying for a lifetime waited for your person for a lifetime, took to bring with ring's time for another girl's ring finger, you could hear the brokenhearted sound.

Today's lead is not you. No matter she is the Cinderella, today's princesses are not you.

He is a pilot, in entire seal training time, for can telephone to her.
Neighbor he wants to take the very far road to go to the telephone booth.
In the winter flutters the snow to be very cold.

She also impatiently said that does is all right always telephones to me.
She did not know that he already froze in here results in is not good, he is only wants to listen to her sound.

Now she will remember these to come on the face to brim with the happy smile. Then has calmed oneself down is having a look at present this to the new person.
The bridegroom is he as before, but his sweet words and honeyed phrases solemn pledge of eternal love.
Was already not said for her.

Some how many people can pledge that liked a person putting to move for a lifetime.

When many years still did not have result time diligently. Who has also waited for you.

Finally clear, we can brave the human who loves facing you not love you, but everybody incapable facing, when one likes you very long person turning around to depart.

That kind of arrogant that kind of happiness is nothing left.

Please treasure your side to love you silently the person.

Perhaps, one day, when he really left. You will discover that will not be able to leave each other, will be you, will not be he....

Simple is the joyful source

The children naive joyful are because they want to result in simply.

The young people look distressed are frequently because their idea is complex, could not find simply.

The senior citizen tranquil composed is because they experienced a long life to climb mountains and cross rivers, passed through the diverseness and confusedness which humanity made, made noise and is at a loss;
They stand in life another saw that the life is very actually simple.

Will become aware the simple person with ease to enjoy the life, they will think that will fly upwards is only the life flash, light will be eternal.

Does not need ostentatious to think of every means for the wild hope, also does not need to not to seek the life male wonderful great, but secretly worried.

Life like dream, years like song, also good, loses also well, poor also good, rich also good, the name and the advantage just are the passing scenes.

Autumn Rain

Took a group, has thought a group;
Looked at a group to listen to a group;
The heart static has sunk down;
If this drop of rain water;
The drop in the control actually melts in the earth. 　
　
In rain autumn; 　　
Air unusual sadness; 　　
On the road does not have the pedestrian; 　　
Without the neon light; 　　
Has a lonely person; 　　
A sad shadow and the dark night fuse in together; 　　
Pulls good length good long....　
　　
The wind has not had the aspiration; 　　
Does not have a vitality; 　　
The leaf is following rain dropping quietly; 　　
Gently receives the umbrella; 　　
The moment the rain water with hugs in together; 　　
Cool... 　　　　　

Road that road; 　　
You are you; 　　
But I actually no longer am I; 　　
The time is changing you; 　　
Is actually unable to change me; 　　
Looking atControl and hand back; 　　
Takes is actually unable to lay down; 　　
Only then slowly remembers or the back gets up....　

Autumn rain;
Was pleased changes is cold;
If the rain is frail;
The rain was calmly pale;
The wind quietly has also come ...

Will deceive people Bird.

One sunny tranquil afternoon, I pass through an orchard piece of small jungle, puff, a bird flies from the bush, stretches out a foot with a wing, lies prone askew in leaves on I more than ten foot far lawn, vibrates slightly, probably was injured. I cross preceding step, wants to examine, its also flutter wings forward motion several feet, like this blindly follow suit, maintains section of distances throughout with me. With arrives at nearby straight the basin, the bird from ground crawls suddenly, inspires the wing to fly, unloads the heart big stone likely, vividly circles a circle in the pond surface, only then vanishes in blue spatial under.

I grasp scratch the head, does this bird disguise to be injured deceives me? Remembered suddenly once on the television saw that disguised to duck to be injured leads away the beast of prey, saved the young duck to cross the dangerous the program. I this thought that is after the film editing, fictionalizes by the amusement audience's movie. Bird really also will deceive people?

I followed the bird to depart the whence to seek a moment ago, really in the shrubbery had a bird nest, inside had Huang who four have not enlarged ones vision Mao the bird, felt branch shaking, thought that the female bird came back the oral administration, made a sound opens foods and so on Huang Zui.

We have underestimated bird's wisdom and the feeling really. Remembered the childhood, most liked seizing bird raising. Once, has seized the bird, saw the female bird all day anxiously flies round on the room tree the twitter to call, I tie up the bird in the mouse cage, on Gao Guashu, the female bird crashes in the cage to want to save the bird, touches the institution, the cage gate closes, Lian Muniao also one and seized. Was only a pity that raising did not get the knack, does not have for several days, the bird and the female bird dies.

Now the manner parents, realized by oneself that the children have that kind which is seized by the human to be difficultly grieved and to be anxious, remember the beforehand actions, the deeply feeling compunction and the regret. We should select benevolently really, the pardon treats each living thing, because they are also vivid, has the sentiment, even has the dear ones !.

Too Long...

“The time passed too for a long time, I was unable to trust me the memory.”

The friend was saying the past events, was saying was saying, the man unexpectedly also sheds tears.
What has he recalled to mind? Or was said that what he has forgotten? Has not dared to press carefully.

The human always lives in the regret. Because the past could not come again.

The time has proceeded, walks, carries off many things while convenient, but should not including person's memory?

The sigh words sound, was saying is the time as if, investigates actually, is the will of the people.

Some matters, although the age is remote, but the picture is forever clear, the entire life is unable to forget.

Some people, do not need to wait, as soon as turns around, then already was gotten immediately rid by you. His name, the face, on has not planned to take in from the very beginning the mind.

The time is not the question crux.

Likes or not, is the question crux....

Perhaps…Love is only a dream.....

I love you….For yours happiness, I am willing to give up all---Including you.

Disappointed, sometimes is also one kind of happiness, because has the anticipation, therefore only then can be disappointed. Because has the love, only then some anticipations, even though therefore disappointed, also will be one kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness will be a little painful.

In the world most is chilly the distance certainly is two people are away from originally is very far, is not acquainted with one another mutually, one day, they are acquainted with one another suddenly, fall in love, the distance becomes very near.
Then one day, no longer has fallen in love, very near two people, become originally very far, even before is farther.

Love causes the human to forget the time, the time also causes the human to fade from the memory love. Lonely is not born that way, but falls in love with a person's that moment start by you.

Likes a person, will not have the pain.

Loves a person, perhaps has the prolonged pain, but he gives my joy, is also in the world the biggest joy.

Two people are together for joyful, bids good-bye is for the relieve pain, you are unable to make me to be joyful again, I also only have leave, I leave, is also very painful, is only, you definitely compared to my pain, because I first said that what first pursues is joyful is I.

Everything all has the price, the joyful price is a pain.

Starts, we knew that the general meeting has the end.

Love has not arrived, the day is carefree; Most painful, is also the examination and the test. At that time thought that the very tremendous pressure, afterward returned looks, but is small how.

Some people are doomed to wait for others, some people are doomed by the human and so on.

The origin reason extinguishes, the reason thick reason is pale, is not we can control.

We can do, is in cause opportune moment time well treasures that short time.

Once met, always exceeds never meets. Why can that the pain forget that a person, the time can cause you naturally to forget.

If the time may not let you forget that should not remember the human, we lose what significance do the years also have?

I thought that love can overcome all, who knows her sometimes not in the least the strength. I thought that love may fill up the life the regret, however, manufacture more regrets, are actually the love.

The ups-and-downs, repeat unceasingly in a section of love. Trades a person, cannot the weather be often blue.

Love must terminate time will terminate, when the time comes, you do not want to mark the period not to be good.

The identical person ,has no way to give you the same pain. When he repeatedly injured your ﹐ that wound already to be used to ,the feeling to be already numb , regardless of were giving him to injure how many times ,by far to be also inferior first time received the wound was so painful.

Love, originally drinks the poisoned liquor with a smile.

Likes a person being very difficult, to give up the beloved person being more difficult.

When love approaches, certainly is also joyful. But, this kind joyful is must pay, must study accepts disappointed, the grief and leaves.

Henceforth, life no longer purely. Perhaps we may simultaneously love two people, is also loved by two people. It is a pity, we can only with one accompanies together old.

Falls in love with a person's time, the general meeting a little is afraid, feared that obtains him; Feared that loses him.

You were once not loved by the human, you will only then treasure that to love you in the future the person. Cannot meet, they miss mutually. But once can meet, once walks again in the same place, they mutually will suffer. Only wants to look for one when I am frustrated may withstand my tear; When I am joyful, may let me nip a shoulder arm. If I do not love you, I will not miss you, I will not be jealous you opposite sex, I will not lose the self-confidence and the fighting spirit, I cannot be painful. If I can not love you, that this good. Leaves depart, is to meet again. Fire of passion, should not reignite. Has reigniteed, these beautiful recollections also will vanish formerly into thin air. If we have not met again, perhaps I lead him deeply to miss Qia, until human body decrepit; But, this moment, I actually hate him. As soon as all happy days, already by far went not to return. Cold is one kind of very moved sickness originally. The pursue and the hope, only then have the joy, also has is depressed and is disappointed. After has been depressed and is disappointed, we only then the academic society treasure. You were once not loved by the human, you will only then treasure that to love you in the future the person.

If the emotion and the years can also tear into shreds gently ,throws in the sea ,that .I to be willing henceforth in the seabed silence…Your spoken language ﹐ I like listening ﹐ actually not to understand that ﹐ my silence ﹐ you are willing to see ﹐ actually did not understand…Love is not originally complex, comes and goes the three characters, is not “I loves you”, “I hates you”, is “considers as finished”, “how are you?”, “sorry”. Falls in love actually cannot love one another, loves one another actually does not fall in love. I also believed that likes being possible to overcome all difficulties; Is only, after all difficulties, also has all difficulties. This is I believes. Your heart is my cape and the horizon, I cannot go far. Our lives altogether goes to ends of the earth, walks randomly half Earth, but is the world accompanying. You love me? Already loved the danger the degree. Danger to what degree? Already could not a person live. Meets by chance, is not hates late, is hates early. Love is love affair's matter, is frustrated the human cannot play. Is unable to accompany together the life-long love ﹐ is the human ﹐ the round trip favorable turn in a hurry stands in the long-distance journey ﹐, regardless of how long pauses ﹐ must depart throughout rides another flight. After leaving, I thought that do not forget a matter: Do not forget that thinks of me. Thought of my time, do not forget that I am also thinking of you. Love is not a refuge shelter, wants to go in the words which seeks asylum, will be will be caught up with. If has no way to forget him, do not forget. True forgetting, does not need diligently. In love world, always has some near absurd matter occurrence, when a person thought that may pay off the regret chronic illness, has no qualms lives, not only to the result, so has been unable to withstand love, but is the life. Loves a person, you meet the self-respect. The pledge is originally the man and a woman's test of strength, is sometimes happy, the major part situation is actually mutually wounded. Love is not a refuge shelter, wants to go in the words which seeks asylum, will be will be caught up with. The fiercest virus, is loves with the rumor. We are afraid the years, actually did not know that is living is encouragement how. We thought that the survival already did not have the meaning, between many person of actually life and death is struggling. When what, we are willing all which has for oneself to fill with the gratitude? Forgets the years, forgets the pain, forgot that your badness, we never never said. In the life major part time, pledged that the synonym is the fetter, how us to yearn for the fetter. Fire of passion, should not reignite. Has reigniteed, these beautiful recollections also will vanish formerly into thin air. If we have not met again, perhaps I can have his deep missing to live, until human body decrepit; But, this moment, I actually hate him. As soon as all happy days, already by far went not to return. Love starts from the hope, also by despaired the conclusion. Has lost heart, was defunct any I once has had to you the hope. Fell in love with you, I has only then understood the missing taste, the separation anxiety and the envy suffering, but also had that endless acquisitive instinct. Why do your every action and every movement let my surging emotions fluctuation? Why am I always afraid the time to fly am unable with you to accompany together life-long? Why can that the pain forget that a person, the time can cause you naturally to forget. If the time may not let you forget that should not remember the human, we lose what significance do the years also have? Knew perfectly well that can lose the freedom, knew perfectly well that this is the entire life contract, to obtain opposite party, to be been joyful opposite party, is also willing to make the pledge.

A love pursue not free, when you complained is not too free time, is you do not love his time. Lonely is not born that way, but liked on still individual that moment start by you. Likes a person, will not have the pain.

Loves a person, perhaps has the prolonged pain, but he gives my joy, is also in the world the biggest joy. In the life major part time, pledged that the synonym is the fetter, how us to yearn for the fetter.

Love, is own complete, what did I no longer lack.

Love is also one kind of invention, needs to improve unceasingly. Is only, this kind of invention is dissimilar with other inventions, it does not have the patent, momentarily will rob to the human. Unrequited loves the greatest behavior, is helps. You do not love me, but I help you.

True unrequited loving, is the life the enterprise, because he is not far away from you to give up. This kind of sentiment, have not needed to easily speak to unrequited love.

The love, is always thousand chapter of hundred revolution of matters. Was abandoned not once, not once received injures, how to understand the spouse?

The love, is one kind of experience originally, hopes the human to be long-time.

The City activity space reduces...

In mine childhood and the young people time, the city which I live very little sees the gymnasium. Second, 30 years have passed by, this urban mushroom growth sets up many gymnasia suddenly likely, even many enterprises also for staff in work indoor preparation fitness equipment. I thought that this is an interest, but is also worth the question which pondered.

Remembered childhood with young people's time, we have the very big activity space. Although lives in the city, but everywhere shakes, very easy to be possible to find has nearby many big tree's places, the river bank, perhaps the quite spacious resident not too dense place, even might also Mt. Papa go to the movement. Therefore I thought that the gymnasium emerges should be a target, indicated that this city the space which moved to the people certainly have been getting fewer and fewer, therefore everybody must push in an airtight space, by the air conditioning control temperature, stepped on jogged machine is modelling the rubber to come up the movement.

I also every 3 day of regular uses jog now machine. Each when jogs machine on jogs I to be able to think frequently, when oneself young people 絕 will not think that must in jog machine on jogs, because I will have many opportunities in the middle of the nature the movement.
Humanity's metropolis, for the industrialization, for urbanized, for the commercial centralism, the environment is day after day crowded and is crowded, will such city be worth making an self-criticism in the future?

The west already started now in the introspection: Wants massively to develop again looks like populations and so on Paris, London, New York, Tokyo to surpass 10,000,000 big urban patterns? Should encourage the middle and small scale city gradually the appearance? For example the recent years elected by ballot Asia to be suitable the city which the humanity lived, was not by Shanghai, Tokyo this kind of metropolis is elected, but Japan's lucky hillock actually repeatedly attained the favor. Fukuoka is a middle and small scale city, the population density that high, relative has not said that human with natural relations easy deep, the person and the nature dialog's opportunity were also quite many.

Europe's development is also quite similar. And I admire very much a country is Germany, for example the Frankfurt such big industrial city, the population is crowded; I ride the airplane to arrive at Frankfurt, soon when land looks from the window, pleasant is the green space. In the middle of the German city gathers densely so-called “the black forest”, this kind of black forest is not the general common city park and so on, walks, but will become lost! They establish these many silvas in the city, so that affable urbanite hurried and in mind anxiety.

On my father that one generation, they very little talks about “the movement” this word, I hear is actually “the work”.

I want to come with the friends to ponder together have a look, what is called the movement? What is called the work? For example in industrialization not universal time, the people nearly are handle the matter with their hand. My family parents train us since childhood, in the morning gets out of bed must certainly sweep the floor, that kind of process I thought that the young friend certainly is not now familiar with. We must raise barrel water to come, first in ground 灑 water, in order to avoid sweeps the floor time the dust flies upwards in all directions; Afterward starts to sweep the floor, then tows with the swab. I recall now, these work bring one day of physiological load of exercise is the foot 夠 but ── we are not called as the movement, but said the work.

What is works? If has the destination to do a work with body's physical strength, we are called as the work. But the modern people do not like working probably, thought that the work is sticky business, therefore the comparison likes the movement.

But sometimes I thought that my situation are also funny: Looks like me to live in the Taibei County Banqiao suburb, the gymnasium is located at the Taibei town center, returns to me to every time transfer several the vehicle, in approximately one hour later can 夠 to the gymnasium. If I use for this time at home to sweep the floor, does not use the vacuum cleaner, but sweeps the floor with the traditional way tows, is also the way which satisfies both sides? I want to lose these ideas to come first, everybody may ponder together, movement with work difference in where? Likely farms the farmer, hits the fishing the fisherman, they work when is working, we will envy said: “this person is a farmer, therefore his physique is very good.”“somebody is a fisherman, his physique practices the attagirl!”They exercise the very good physique in the work, but today major part person actually has lost this kind of work opportunity.

After industrialization society, the work place work shape had the very big change, many friends hold the post of the white collar class work, the major part time sit in the office cold air compartment, by computer manage affairs. But housework, also has the washer, vacuum cleaner these machines to do for somebody, the bodily work's opportunity were less.

The beforehand father trains us to do laundry, when yizhi dao attends the high school, I take a crystal soap to rub clothes, clothes wash, also works also the movement. Therefore I frequently pondered that now such question, I whether can spend period of long time to go by car, in jogs to an airtight cold air compartment machine on jogs? Sometimes I actually may at home wash clothes, mop the floor; Plays music, the whistle, completes the work and the movement joyfully?

I believed that the human is an idea animal, if we detest and reject the work, the contempt work, to despise the work, therefore the body must look for other way to substitute; But uses for the way which substitutes, can be better than the original housework work? I thought that is question which is worth pondering.

童心

從砂拉越回吉隆坡，在候機室我見到了他們，男女有十多個。應該是第一次出遠門旅行，由老師帶著，小瓜們頂多是八九歲，在候機室裡像小鳥般吱吱喳喳，小臉洋溢著無比的興奮。
上了飛機，小瓜們剛好坐在我的前一排，那兩個小時的飛行中，小瓜們的談話真的是沒停過，飛機一起飛，小瓜馬上就擠在小窗口觀望，“嘩，下面的屋子好小呀！”，“你看，你看，彎彎那條是河流吧？”
從砂拉越回吉隆坡，在候機室我見到了他們，男女有十多個。應該是第一次出遠門旅行，由老師帶著，小瓜們頂多是八九歲，在候機室裡像小鳥般吱吱喳喳，小臉洋溢著無比的興奮。
上了飛機，小瓜們剛好坐在我的前一排，那兩個小時的飛行中，小瓜們的談話真的是沒停過，飛機一起飛，小瓜馬上就擠在小窗口觀望，“嘩，下面的屋子好小呀！”，“你看，你看，彎彎那條是河流吧？”
另一伴有外遇，該怎麼辦？
“坐好，坐好”空姐來了，他們才坐回原位。他們的老師都坐在比較後面，我奇怪老師們怎麼都沒來問他們有甚麼需要嗎？都那麼放心讓他們自由發揮，小瓜們樂得沒人管，好開心。
午餐後，大人們昏昏欲睡，唯有這班小瓜還是龍馬精神，時大時小的談話聲、笑聲不時傳來，再不然就前排的跪在椅上和後面的笑鬧著，“你們不累呀？”我忍不住問其中一個小男生，他有點不好意思跟我笑笑，又跟他的同學談話去了。
在半醒半睡中，我被機身震動驚醒，廣播正播著：“遇上大氣流，請系好安全帶坐在您的位子上。”“沒事，沒事”老公拍拍我的手，話才說完，接二連三的大震動，令我心一緊，不由得握緊了老公的手，心中也不由自主的念起“阿彌陀佛”。
全機的人還在驚恐中，忽然一陣笑聲響起，“好好玩，好像過山車，嘩……又來了”，原來是前面那班小瓜，不知天高地厚在嚷，他們一定認為飛機平穩的飛，一點都不好玩，那一次次的晃動才刺激，他們不知大人可是心驚膽跳，恨不得那一刻快點過去。
小孩沒有心機，所以沒有恐懼心理，真的是令人羨慕！

Scratches The Body(擦身而過).

Looks like the anchor suddenly;
More walks, more thinks itself;
Leaves itself far…

Today when I turn head;
From caused me to see yesterday's flame;
Feels today's temperateness;
The quantity left yesterday's missing; Walked far…

To this situation; Cumulus cloud also finally;
Has gotten down several drops ──, if is not the personal experience;
I am unbelievable...
They reduce sufficiently;
Equator April's noon hot…..

~~明白它们,你会发现你的人生在改变~~

~~明白它们,你会发现你的人生在改变~~

人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。
因为你自己的内心，你放不下。

好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。
你随时要认命，因为你是人。

这个世界本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。
你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。

每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。
当你烦恼的时候，你就要告诉你自己，这一切都是假的，你烦恼什么？

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁.
如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？

忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处; 也不可能减少别人的成就。
永远不要浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你不喜欢的人.

得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，
那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。
当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。

这个世间只有圆滑，没有圆满的。
不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。
你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。

时间总会过去的，让时间流走你的烦恼吧！
不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。

感谢上苍我所拥有的，感谢上苍我所没有的。
当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西;如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。
人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一种福气了。
多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳，多少人在今天已经成了残废;多少人在今天已经失去了自由，多少人在今天已经家破人亡。

恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中，不管他有多坏，有多恶。
你愈骂他，你的心就被污染了，你要想，他就是你的善知识。
你不要常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该要想，他对我这样已经很好了，这就是修行的功夫。
世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃,要抛弃的是一切的执著。

万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。
学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

发光并非太阳的专利，你也可以发光。
你可以用爱得到全世界，你也可以用恨失去全世界。
爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。

人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。

如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊，可能一辈子找不到朋友。

Sometime Part 4

Sometime is parent false;Sometime is children false;
Sometime is looser;Sometime is winner;
Sometime is emotions;Sometime is no emotions...

I really tires for all stupid life...Always getting scold and complain...
why ????I have wrong it is???the wrong is be here human...why i like all the world hate me???
Family like that,friends also like that....why ????
Am I wrong???why i can't live this world with peach...need to have fight.....
I really is tired for all thing...everything is mine false...Everything i stupid..or I'm stupid until like pig...Whatever I do.family don't like it...and me is rubbish????why????
You don't want me out,Why you need born me out????I really HATE YOU.....
When I coming this world,would you care for me???would you teach me??
I really no understand..Why you din't give any wish for me???Your wish is me be your cleaning worker it it??Why???when i say i want to study back,and also want to exam time.You also don't give any wish for me and tell if i pass this exam,you will cut down your head....that mean you are not believe me i will pass..and also you look down to me...
Why???And i driver car,you can't stop complain it and that...How about my brother driver???You say scold them until they be good...I hear it and I lough...
if my brother so listen to you,my brother don't have get any saman...And you don't need waste
mouth scold them....
WHY ?????????? I REALLY MAKE YOU ANGRY IT IS????If YES,PLEASE ASK GOD TAKE MINE LIFE........................

心燈不滅

友人傳來一則號召響應“關燈一小時”運動的短訊。看後不但覺得溫暖，也讓個人想起了在不久前讀到的一則歌詞，內容挺有意思的，那是這樣的:

天心裡裝的是明月；
花心裡裝的是芳蕊；
馬心裡裝的是千里；
鷹心裡裝的是高飛；
你心裡裝的是什麼？

因此個人就班門弄斧，先套用上文，再狗尾續貂了一小段文字，回復了這位友人。復文加上去的內容如下:

若你心裡裝的是我們的下一代，請讓一直護佑著地球上眾生的真理不被遮蓋，並叫能甦醒人心的真光能傳揚至每一個角落，那地球就真正有救了。

如果把外面的燈關了，四周雖會一時半刻落入黑暗，但卻能節省不少能源，這是非常值得鼓勵的做法，因為這能為我們的下一代存多一些溫暖。不過人心靈裡 的光卻不能也跟著熄去，因為這將會叫大地陷入一片真正的黑暗，這比沒有能源使用帶來的後果，可是更加嚴重，單單這一刻就叫人感到寒冷的，更妄想能造福下一 代。

祝願地球上每一個人心裡都充滿真理的能源，心燈一分都不滅...

Sometime Part 3

Sometime is wrong; Sometime is right.
Sometime we don't know wrong or right;black or white; true or no true...
Sometime we believe or don't believe;
Sometime we choose or don't choose;
Sometime we help or don't help;
Sometime we say out or don't say out;
Sometime we care or don't care;

If us don't do anything,the world will become what????
Is peace or no peace???
(who can answer me??)

Do not sob on the road (別在路上哭泣)

On Sunday rides a prosperous lotus Sichuan line of bus, in the evening time interval vehicle when travel is used to the vehicle in the dome light closes, lets the passenger rest.
Passes light twinkle which passes by on the road, I discovered accidentally sits in a next door row of female student, alone a person sits in there does not stop turns the neck toward the window direction, must bury own facial cast likely. As soon as I fix the eyes on looked that only then discovered that person has tears streaming down the face, the whole face holds in hand's baggage sadly in the sob. Perhaps is she realized that the bus is the public place, is afraid is seen by the human actually not to be able to bear, therefore only could cry peacefully to the window. Witnessed that this, remembered itself also once in the similar situation, is redundant matter which this female student did. At that time I was forced to leave native place, in the family informed by telegram the knowledge: A very close relative walked. I catch up with the bus to go home in light of this, actually thinks and the family member and my life intravenous drip on the vehicle, his before death all sorts; But at this moment dashes, already was his funeral unexpectedly. At that time were also cannot repress sadly, sat has cried inside the bus. But to avoid scaring other passengers, before I change to diligently the window, is also not sent out oneself any sound, the attempt conceals the out of control tears. Thinks the family member leaves when has not been able to accompany in side, fills with the regret is the tears lacks the dike the reason.
Now although I did not know that female student sobs reason, but her action actually lets me remember a old person has said to me the words: “the parents are in good health do not leave home to be too far, exempt the person to add regret.”This new year period sees many television advertisement to urge that the decoys go home, has had at heart words to spin: Must go home, don't wait till which one day, we can only on the road which goes home, holds the regrettable sob .....

週日坐上隆芙川行的巴士，晚間時段的車在行駛時都習慣把車內頂燈關上，讓乘客休息。透過路上的燈光閃爍，我無意中發現坐在隔壁排的一個女生，獨自一人坐在那兒不停的往窗口方向扭脖子，像要埋沒自己的臉龐。我定睛一看，才發現那人淚流滿面，滿臉哀傷地抱手上的行李在哭泣。也許是她察覺巴士乃是公共地方，害怕被人看見卻又忍不住，所以只能安靜地對窗口哭了起來。

目睹這一幕，就想起自己也曾在同樣的場合，重複這女生所做的事。當時我離鄉背井，家中來電告知：一位至親走了。就此我趕上巴士回家，在車上卻思及親人與我的生活點滴，他生前的種種；而此刻飛奔回去，竟已是他的葬禮。當時自己也是按捺不住悲傷，坐在巴士裡頭就哭了起來。但是為了避免嚇壞其他乘客，我努力地把頭轉到窗口前，也不讓自己發出任何聲音，企圖掩飾失控的淚水。想到親人離開時未能陪伴在旁，滿懷的遺憾就是淚水缺堤的原因。

如今雖然我不知道那個女生哭泣的理由，但是她的舉動卻讓我想起一個老人家對我說過的話：“父母健在就勿離家太遠，免徒添遺憾。”這個新年期間又看見許多的電視廣告聲聲催促游子們歸家，心裡就一直有句話在打轉：要回家，不要等到哪一天，我們只能在回家的路上，抱遺憾哭泣.....

SomeTime Part 2.

Sometime life is colorfull;
Sometime life is black and whitr;
Sometime life is under God control;
Sometime life is under human control;
Sometime life is very easy ;
Sometime life is very hard.;
Sometime life is nothing happen;
Sometime life is happening;
Sometime life is loving;
Sometime life is unhappy;
Sometime.......................................................
To Be Continue.....

peterpan

缘分在的时候，请珍惜‏!!!

常常觉得，谈恋爱的人就像小孩子一样，要宠着哄着，要时时陪伴，更要无微不至.还记得吗？在我们很小的时候，只要看不见妈妈，就会因为不安而大哭起来。其实，妈妈只是不在我们的眼前，我们只因为眼前看不见，所以就认为妈妈不见了，认为妈妈不见了的同时，也以为妈妈不爱我们了。 恋爱，不就跟那时的我们很像吗？ 在被拥抱的时候，听对方说情话的时候，手牵手逛街的时候，我们都觉得对方是百分之百地爱着我们。 可是，就从道了再见，关上家门的那一刻起，内心悬念，因为见不到，担心对方有没有想念我们，听不到，见不到的我们，忧虑对方会不会忠于我们，只因为不在我们身边，我们就以为爱会不见，却不知道，不在身边的她，不等于不爱你，很多事情，看不到不等于不存在。 而且，每一个人都是恋爱中的人，所以，不安的不只我们，还有看不见我们的他，彼此，都有着一样的不安，都期望相同的谅解。 有时候，我们会抱怨当我们需要他的时候，他总是不在身旁，可有些时候，他最需要我们的时候，我们也不知情，不是吗？ 所有的人，都有可能在最需要对方的时候，却必须一个人坚强起来。 吃到好吃的东西时，看到美丽的景物时，都会希望和他分享，他不在身边的时候，你不也抱着这样的心情在爱他吗？ 为何，就不能相信他也和你一样呢？ 我相信，真心相爱的两个人，就算不在彼此身边，还是深深爱着的，两颗心，也会因为这爱，而紧紧相系。 我们常常怀疑自己，明明条件不差，为什么偏偏没有另一半，而那些不那么漂亮、不那么可爱、不那么幽默的人，反而拥有令人羡慕的感情，为什么呢？我想是因为我们都太小心，太谨慎太不敢去爱了吧？我们将自己的感情包装的好好的，不让对方发现。为了所谓的矜持与害怕，选择等待、选择放弃、选择错过。 被爱很幸福，可以接受、可以拒绝、可以有面子，于是我们总是等着人家来爱，但是，当我们发现没办法爱上对方时呢？又或是我爱的人永远都不说爱我呢？我该接受那段不期盼的感情，还是勇于追求自己的幸福呢？ 不敢接受爱我的人的情感，也不肯去追求心动的对象，只是偷偷希望对方能主动，难怪会这么的寂寞，这是因为不给别人也不给自己任何的机会。 但是，在这个大家都那么脆弱的时代，或许男男女女都选择了沉默，我们在暧昧的界线中游走，不太近，也不太远，在若有若无的暗示中，期盼对方的回应。 我承认我是这样的，但这样会错失多少可能的幸福呢？很羡慕很佩服，那些勇敢坦率说出自己的心意表现自己的情感的人，不管是男孩对女孩，或是女孩对男孩，他们都对自己诚实的好可爱，或许会为了爱情而兴奋得整夜难以成眠，或许会伤心得泪流满面，然而，比一再的遗憾来得精彩吧。 我想我们都应该更勇敢些、更坚强点，不能因为害怕伤害就干脆不去爱了。 喜欢一个人，何必在意先说出口。想跟一个人牵着手一直一直走下去，分享自己的喜怒哀愁，这样美丽的心情，难得一见。 我们都要学着更温柔，对爱我们或我们爱的人，认真接受认真付出，遗憾与后悔，比什么都让人难过。别让幸福又由身边流失了，我们要更珍惜所拥有的一切，祝福所有人都能找到所爱..... 这一生，你可能会遇到许多喜欢你的人， 但是，你可能永远都遇不到一个你真正爱的人 所以，一但遇到了，一定要好好的把握。 很多事情，错过了就没有了，错过了就是会变的，缘份也是...


小飞侠

Fate at time, Please treasure!!!

Thought frequently, is in love the human looks like the child to be the same, must favor is roaring, must accompany at times, must be meticulous. also remembers?
Is was very small in us, so long as cannot see parent, because of restless will cry.
Actually, parent only not in us at present, we because at present cannot only see, therefore thinks parent to disappear, thought parent disappears at the same time, also thought that parent did not love us.

The love, not very much looked like with at that time us?
In hugs, listens opposite party to say talk between lovers's time, the hand connecting rod window-shops, we thought that opposite party is 100% places is loving us.
But, from said that closed the main house gate that moment, the innermost feelings were anxious, because could not see, worried opposite party did have thinks of us, did not hear, us who could not see, could the anxious opposite party be loyal to us, because side us, we did not only think that liked meeting does not see, actually did not know, in her, was not equal to did not love you, many matters, did not look that was not equal to did not exist.
Moreover, each people are in the love person, not only therefore, restless we, but also has cannot see us he, each other, has the same restlessness, expects the same forgiveness.
Sometimes, we will complain, when we will need his time, he always not in one's side, but some time, he will most need our time, we will not know the circumstances of the matter, not right?
All people, have the possibility, in most needs opposite party time, actually must a person be strong.
When eats the delicious thing, saw when beautiful scenery, can hope and him shares, he not at time, you not also hold such mood to love him? why can't , believe that he is also same as you?
I believed that the sincerity falls in love two people, even if not side each other, is loving deeply, two hearts, also because of this love, but tight department.
We suspect ourselves frequently, the condition is not obviously bad, why doesn't have the other half, but these are not so attractive, are not so lovable, not that humorous person, instead has the enviable sentiment, why? I want to be because we are too careful, too discrete too has not dared to love? We our sentimental packing, do not let opposite party discover well. For so-called acting with constraint with is afraid, the selective wait, the choice give up, the choice missing.
Is liked being very happy, may accept, may refuse, to be possible have the face, therefore we always wait for others to love, but, when we discovered that does not have the means to fall in love with time opposite party? Also perhaps I love the human forever did not say that loves me? I should accept the sentiment which that section did not hope for, dares to pursue own happiness? does not dare to accept loves me person's emotion, is also not willing to pursue the heart movement the object, is only hoped secretly opposite party can be initiative, no wonder the loneliness such, this will be because will not give itself for others any opportunity.
But, in this everybody that frail time, perhaps the men and women has chosen the silence, we walk in the ambiguous demarcation line middle reaches, is not too near, is also not too far, in the vague suggestion, hopes for opposite party response. I acknowledged that I am this, but how many possible happiness like this meets error? Envies very much admires very much, these brave says the human who frankly their regard display their emotion, no matter is the boy to the girl, perhaps girl to boy, they to oneself honest good lovable, may for love, but is excited all night falls asleep with difficulty, may be sad has tears streaming down the face, however, comes splendidly compared to the regret repeatedly.

I think us should braver, a stronger spot, cannot, because the fear injury simply did not love. Likes a person, why cares says the mouth first. Wants to pull with a person begins to walk, shares own happy anger to be sorrowful, as soon as the such beautiful mood, rare sees. we must study are being gentler, to loves the human who we or we love, accepts earnestly pays earnestly, the regret and the regret, are more discomforting than anything. do not let happy drain by the side, we must treasure all which has, blessing all people could find love .....
This life, you will possibly meet many like you the person, , but, you possibly forever could not meet a your true love person , therefore, one, but has met, certainly must the assurance well.
Many matters, missed did not have, has missed is will change, the fate was also…


By:peterpan87