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Monday, February 23, 2009

Sometime Part 3

Sometime is wrong; Sometime is right.
Sometime we don't know wrong or right;black or white; true or no true...
Sometime we believe or don't believe;
Sometime we choose or don't choose;
Sometime we help or don't help;
Sometime we say out or don't say out;
Sometime we care or don't care;

If us don't do anything,the world will become what????
Is peace or no peace???
(who can answer me??)

Do not sob on the road (別在路上哭泣)

On Sunday rides a prosperous lotus Sichuan line of bus, in the evening time interval vehicle when travel is used to the vehicle in the dome light closes, lets the passenger rest.
Passes light twinkle which passes by on the road, I discovered accidentally sits in a next door row of female student, alone a person sits in there does not stop turns the neck toward the window direction, must bury own facial cast likely. As soon as I fix the eyes on looked that only then discovered that person has tears streaming down the face, the whole face holds in hand's baggage sadly in the sob. Perhaps is she realized that the bus is the public place, is afraid is seen by the human actually not to be able to bear, therefore only could cry peacefully to the window. Witnessed that this, remembered itself also once in the similar situation, is redundant matter which this female student did. At that time I was forced to leave native place, in the family informed by telegram the knowledge: A very close relative walked. I catch up with the bus to go home in light of this, actually thinks and the family member and my life intravenous drip on the vehicle, his before death all sorts; But at this moment dashes, already was his funeral unexpectedly. At that time were also cannot repress sadly, sat has cried inside the bus. But to avoid scaring other passengers, before I change to diligently the window, is also not sent out oneself any sound, the attempt conceals the out of control tears. Thinks the family member leaves when has not been able to accompany in side, fills with the regret is the tears lacks the dike the reason.
Now although I did not know that female student sobs reason, but her action actually lets me remember a old person has said to me the words: “the parents are in good health do not leave home to be too far, exempt the person to add regret.”This new year period sees many television advertisement to urge that the decoys go home, has had at heart words to spin: Must go home, don't wait till which one day, we can only on the road which goes home, holds the regrettable sob .....

週日坐上隆芙川行的巴士,晚間時段的車在行駛時都習慣把車內頂燈關上,讓乘客休息。透過路上的燈光閃爍,我無意中發現坐在隔壁排的一個女生,獨自一人坐在那兒不停的往窗口方向扭脖子,像要埋沒自己的臉龐。我定睛一看,才發現那人淚流滿面,滿臉哀傷地抱手上的行李在哭泣。也許是她察覺巴士乃是公共地方,害怕被人看見卻又忍不住,所以只能安靜地對窗口哭了起來。

目睹這一幕,就想起自己也曾在同樣的場合,重複這女生所做的事。當時我離鄉背井,家中來電告知:一位至親走了。就此我趕上巴士回家,在車上卻思及親人與我的生活點滴,他生前的種種;而此刻飛奔回去,竟已是他的葬禮。當時自己也是按捺不住悲傷,坐在巴士裡頭就哭了起來。但是為了避免嚇壞其他乘客,我努力地把頭轉到窗口前,也不讓自己發出任何聲音,企圖掩飾失控的淚水。想到親人離開時未能陪伴在旁,滿懷的遺憾就是淚水缺堤的原因。

如今雖然我不知道那個女生哭泣的理由,但是她的舉動卻讓我想起一個老人家對我說過的話:“父母健在就勿離家太遠,免徒添遺憾。”這個新年期間又看見許多的電視廣告聲聲催促游子們歸家,心裡就一直有句話在打轉:要回家,不要等到哪一天,我們只能在回家的路上,抱遺憾哭泣.....

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

SomeTime Part 2.

Sometime life is colorfull;
Sometime life is black and whitr;
Sometime life is under God control;
Sometime life is under human control;
Sometime life is very easy ;
Sometime life is very hard.;
Sometime life is nothing happen;
Sometime life is happening;
Sometime life is loving;
Sometime life is unhappy;
Sometime.......................................................
To Be Continue.....

peterpan

Sunday, February 8, 2009

缘分在的时候,请珍惜‏!!!

常常觉得,谈恋爱的人就像小孩子一样,要宠着哄着,要时时陪伴,更要无微不至.还记得吗?在我们很小的时候,只要看不见妈妈,就会因为不安而大哭起来。其实,妈妈只是不在我们的眼前,我们只因为眼前看不见,所以就认为妈妈不见了,认为妈妈不见了的同时,也以为妈妈不爱我们了。 恋爱,不就跟那时的我们很像吗? 在被拥抱的时候,听对方说情话的时候,手牵手逛街的时候,我们都觉得对方是百分之百地爱着我们。 可是,就从道了再见,关上家门的那一刻起,内心悬念,因为见不到,担心对方有没有想念我们,听不到,见不到的我们,忧虑对方会不会忠于我们,只因为不在我们身边,我们就以为爱会不见,却不知道,不在身边的她,不等于不爱你,很多事情,看不到不等于不存在。 而且,每一个人都是恋爱中的人,所以,不安的不只我们,还有看不见我们的他,彼此,都有着一样的不安,都期望相同的谅解。 有时候,我们会抱怨当我们需要他的时候,他总是不在身旁,可有些时候,他最需要我们的时候,我们也不知情,不是吗? 所有的人,都有可能在最需要对方的时候,却必须一个人坚强起来。 吃到好吃的东西时,看到美丽的景物时,都会希望和他分享,他不在身边的时候,你不也抱着这样的心情在爱他吗? 为何,就不能相信他也和你一样呢? 我相信,真心相爱的两个人,就算不在彼此身边,还是深深爱着的,两颗心,也会因为这爱,而紧紧相系。 我们常常怀疑自己,明明条件不差,为什么偏偏没有另一半,而那些不那么漂亮、不那么可爱、不那么幽默的人,反而拥有令人羡慕的感情,为什么呢?我想是因为我们都太小心,太谨慎太不敢去爱了吧?我们将自己的感情包装的好好的,不让对方发现。为了所谓的矜持与害怕,选择等待、选择放弃、选择错过。 被爱很幸福,可以接受、可以拒绝、可以有面子,于是我们总是等着人家来爱,但是,当我们发现没办法爱上对方时呢?又或是我爱的人永远都不说爱我呢?我该接受那段不期盼的感情,还是勇于追求自己的幸福呢? 不敢接受爱我的人的情感,也不肯去追求心动的对象,只是偷偷希望对方能主动,难怪会这么的寂寞,这是因为不给别人也不给自己任何的机会。 但是,在这个大家都那么脆弱的时代,或许男男女女都选择了沉默,我们在暧昧的界线中游走,不太近,也不太远,在若有若无的暗示中,期盼对方的回应。 我承认我是这样的,但这样会错失多少可能的幸福呢?很羡慕很佩服,那些勇敢坦率说出自己的心意表现自己的情感的人,不管是男孩对女孩,或是女孩对男孩,他们都对自己诚实的好可爱,或许会为了爱情而兴奋得整夜难以成眠,或许会伤心得泪流满面,然而,比一再的遗憾来得精彩吧。 我想我们都应该更勇敢些、更坚强点,不能因为害怕伤害就干脆不去爱了。 喜欢一个人,何必在意先说出口。想跟一个人牵着手一直一直走下去,分享自己的喜怒哀愁,这样美丽的心情,难得一见。 我们都要学着更温柔,对爱我们或我们爱的人,认真接受认真付出,遗憾与后悔,比什么都让人难过。别让幸福又由身边流失了,我们要更珍惜所拥有的一切,祝福所有人都能找到所爱..... 这一生,你可能会遇到许多喜欢你的人, 但是,你可能永远都遇不到一个你真正爱的人 所以,一但遇到了,一定要好好的把握。 很多事情,错过了就没有了,错过了就是会变的,缘份也是...


小飞侠

Fate at time, Please treasure!!!

Thought frequently, is in love the human looks like the child to be the same, must favor is roaring, must accompany at times, must be meticulous. also remembers?
Is was very small in us, so long as cannot see parent, because of restless will cry.
Actually, parent only not in us at present, we because at present cannot only see, therefore thinks parent to disappear, thought parent disappears at the same time, also thought that parent did not love us.

The love, not very much looked like with at that time us?
In hugs, listens opposite party to say talk between lovers's time, the hand connecting rod window-shops, we thought that opposite party is 100% places is loving us.
But, from said that closed the main house gate that moment, the innermost feelings were anxious, because could not see, worried opposite party did have thinks of us, did not hear, us who could not see, could the anxious opposite party be loyal to us, because side us, we did not only think that liked meeting does not see, actually did not know, in her, was not equal to did not love you, many matters, did not look that was not equal to did not exist.
Moreover, each people are in the love person, not only therefore, restless we, but also has cannot see us he, each other, has the same restlessness, expects the same forgiveness.
Sometimes, we will complain, when we will need his time, he always not in one's side, but some time, he will most need our time, we will not know the circumstances of the matter, not right?
All people, have the possibility, in most needs opposite party time, actually must a person be strong.
When eats the delicious thing, saw when beautiful scenery, can hope and him shares, he not at time, you not also hold such mood to love him? why can't , believe that he is also same as you?
I believed that the sincerity falls in love two people, even if not side each other, is loving deeply, two hearts, also because of this love, but tight department.
We suspect ourselves frequently, the condition is not obviously bad, why doesn't have the other half, but these are not so attractive, are not so lovable, not that humorous person, instead has the enviable sentiment, why? I want to be because we are too careful, too discrete too has not dared to love? We our sentimental packing, do not let opposite party discover well. For so-called acting with constraint with is afraid, the selective wait, the choice give up, the choice missing.
Is liked being very happy, may accept, may refuse, to be possible have the face, therefore we always wait for others to love, but, when we discovered that does not have the means to fall in love with time opposite party? Also perhaps I love the human forever did not say that loves me? I should accept the sentiment which that section did not hope for, dares to pursue own happiness? does not dare to accept loves me person's emotion, is also not willing to pursue the heart movement the object, is only hoped secretly opposite party can be initiative, no wonder the loneliness such, this will be because will not give itself for others any opportunity.
But, in this everybody that frail time, perhaps the men and women has chosen the silence, we walk in the ambiguous demarcation line middle reaches, is not too near, is also not too far, in the vague suggestion, hopes for opposite party response. I acknowledged that I am this, but how many possible happiness like this meets error? Envies very much admires very much, these brave says the human who frankly their regard display their emotion, no matter is the boy to the girl, perhaps girl to boy, they to oneself honest good lovable, may for love, but is excited all night falls asleep with difficulty, may be sad has tears streaming down the face, however, comes splendidly compared to the regret repeatedly.

I think us should braver, a stronger spot, cannot, because the fear injury simply did not love. Likes a person, why cares says the mouth first. Wants to pull with a person begins to walk, shares own happy anger to be sorrowful, as soon as the such beautiful mood, rare sees. we must study are being gentler, to loves the human who we or we love, accepts earnestly pays earnestly, the regret and the regret, are more discomforting than anything. do not let happy drain by the side, we must treasure all which has, blessing all people could find love .....
This life, you will possibly meet many like you the person, , but, you possibly forever could not meet a your true love person , therefore, one, but has met, certainly must the assurance well.
Many matters, missed did not have, has missed is will change, the fate was also…


By:peterpan87