In Ideal and Reality Love

<In Ideal and Reality Love>

In ideal love, always wants to accompany frequently about the lover, listens to her to act like a spoiled brat, no matter what she deliberately creates trouble, inquires after the well being of with her, lets her add clothing to reduce the clothes ......Shares sorrow for him helps overcome difficulties, supplies ideas for him, prepares all for him ......
But in the reality we actually cannot the mornings and evenings, time accompanying, even separates the horizon. But “two sentiments, if is long-time time, also how can it be that in mornings and evenings”.

In ideal love, always wants to give own him or her most good life, best gift, most expensive accessories ......
But in the reality we actually not necessarily have that condition to allow us such to spend freely! But we in struggle diligently, for the more glorious future, for each other happy life!

In ideal love, always thought that two people are together joyfully, happy accompanying, has not quarrelled, harmonious coexistence ...... But in the reality we actually unavoidably fall into the convention, bickers for the trivial matters, is jealous for the minor matter, for individuality quarrel ......But we in the study tolerance, the academic society contain, our sentiment is wearing in!

In ideal love, always wants to look for a lover is the outstanding person phoenix, in man's outstanding person, in woman's high-quality goods ......But in the reality is actually outside the human has the human, outside the mountain has the mountain, cannot compare! But their lover in their eye actually forever are best, in sentiment person eye Xi Shi!

In ideal love possibly really always has the difference with the reality, ideal is happy, but the reality is brutal; But ideal perhaps suits you, but perhaps suits you is also not in your ideal, the choices in you, return the thoughts you!

真正的富贵

空蓝的醉人，海面风平浪静。

时间还是上午，一个老渔夫悠闲地坐在海边，一边抽烟，一边凝视着大海，
身旁是他的渔船。他看起来满足而自在，心中了无牵挂。

这时，一个大富翁走了过来。
富翁：“这么好的天气，你怎么坐在这里抽烟啊？”
老渔夫：“这么好的天气，为什么不坐下来抽烟？”
富翁：“这么好的天气，你不能坐下抽烟！”
老渔夫：“那我该干什么呢？”
富翁：“你应该抓紧时间出海打鱼。”
老渔夫：“我已经一大早出海回来了，打的鱼足够好几天的生活了。”
富翁：“那你也该抓紧时间再多多地出去几次，打更多的鱼。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后每天如此。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后你用赚来的钱，买一艘新船，租出去。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后赚很多的钱，买更多的船，赚更多钱……。”
老渔夫：“然后呢？”
富翁：“然后你成功了，你就可以悠闲地坐在海边，抽一袋烟，享受人生！”
老渔夫：“你看我现在在做什么呢？”
富翁：……

这是一个早年听到的充满禅意的故事。
在这个高速竞争的时代，我们每天都面对着生存和发展的压力，
常常心力憔悴而疲惫不堪。可是我们是否想过，我们到底在追求什么？
一个人也许天天都在憧憬发大财、做大官、得大名望。
然后为了这些成功的辉煌，用辛苦和烦恼替换了一天天美好的光阴。
就这样，为了享乐，苦了一生。为了休息，忙了一生。
其实，人的一生，不该碌碌无为虚度光阴。只有知道追求美好的目标，
才是健康的人生心态。然而，既然追求的是美好，为什么要错过每一天当下的美好呢？
任何时候，是否快乐，关键看你对待世界的是一颗怎样的心。
有些时候，是否快乐，不是因为你拥有的多，而是因为你计较的少。
你快乐，你就是真正的富翁。

Friendship Priceless

“The friend like sea, makes the boat tolerantly, goes boating in the sea, broad Fang Zhihai; The friend like mountain, tolerant is a diameter, follows the diameter mountaineering, big Fang Zhishan; The friend opens heart, hands over, but intimate, has mutual affinity, side intimate this noble.”

Human's life has several intimate friends rarely, perhaps some people said that not, I have many intimate friends. Perhaps you to them are the sincerity, but were they and you equally are unknown to them. I see many surfaces very good to resemble with a person, but was actually in secret you said that I was not I said you were not right, I thought that such might as well did not make friend's good.

Thought that I was also quite lucky, when school had the getting along well friend. Participated works has let me run into an I specially grateful friend, although said that our disposition differed 108,000 great distances. She belongs is very lively, very talkative that kind, but I actually am the disposition introversion, bad conversation. So long as but both of us to had together could not say the words, said listened to them for other colleagues not to believe that because they knew that my disposition, was that kind of possibility others says ten, I only then returned to a that kind of person, possibly also therefore let them think me not well close, but in fact my innermost feelings were not thought like this, but was with them in thought together could not speak anxiously, also did not know that was any reason. Speaks the truth, thinks including me strangely, I general and in not too familiar logical expression am specially few, always thought that does not have what words with them to be possible to extend, but first time met we with her to chat for one evening, really specially happy could have this kind of friend, had any words to be possible to say to her. But looks like a big elder sister in usually her same to look after me, my dependent mentality is specially heavy, does any matter always to think front some people are bringing, therefore each time has any matter she I to follow on the heels in front does, certainly I also know this not well, therefore I correct my this shortcoming as far as possible. I am a human who an emotion does not appear externally, no matter I to her am gratitude at heart how, I will not thanks always on the mouth, but actually because of other anything, but will be I thought that such words placed may not need at heart to take frequently said.

What intimate friend is really very rare, if you had this friendship easily do not destroy it.

Forever Friend

"A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out."

Sometimes in life, You find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty...Please do be so scare..

Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world
suddenly seem bright and full.

Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times.

If you turn and walk away, Your forever friend will follows ;
If you lose you way,Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.

And if you find such a friend,You feel happy and complete.
Because you need not worry, Your have a forever friend for life, And forever has no end.

Youth

Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind.

It is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees.

It is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, vigor of the emotions;

It is the freshness of the deep spring of life.

Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease.

This often exits in a man of 60, more than a boy of 20.
Nobody grows merely by the number of years; we grow old by deserting our ideas.

Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.

Worry, fear, self-distrust1 bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.

Whether 60 or 16, there is in every human being's heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what's next and the joy of the game of living.

In the center of your heart and my heart there is a wireless station; so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from infinite, so long as you are young.

When the aerials are down, and your spirit is covered with the snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you've grown old, even at 20, but as long as your aerials are up,to catch waves of optimism, there's hope you may die young at 80.

When he really leaves…

A friend said that pursued she very long that boy to marry today.

When he really leaves…I said how you did want, to like your five year you being aloof.

She said that she attended the wedding ceremony, the bride has been very attractive. The bridegroom is also very graceful.
Probably first time thought that he is also originally has the charm. How initially hadn't detected. She said that thought originally oneself has not fallen in love with him.

But exchanges ring's that moment in the happy pair, she has loved dearly. She said that saddest is not the human who you love does not love you, but was that likes you many year people turning around to depart.

When you saw that saying that liked you saying for a lifetime waited for your person for a lifetime, took to bring with ring's time for another girl's ring finger, you could hear the brokenhearted sound.

Today's lead is not you. No matter she is the Cinderella, today's princesses are not you.

He is a pilot, in entire seal training time, for can telephone to her.
Neighbor he wants to take the very far road to go to the telephone booth.
In the winter flutters the snow to be very cold.

She also impatiently said that does is all right always telephones to me.
She did not know that he already froze in here results in is not good, he is only wants to listen to her sound.

Now she will remember these to come on the face to brim with the happy smile. Then has calmed oneself down is having a look at present this to the new person.
The bridegroom is he as before, but his sweet words and honeyed phrases solemn pledge of eternal love.
Was already not said for her.

Some how many people can pledge that liked a person putting to move for a lifetime.

When many years still did not have result time diligently. Who has also waited for you.

Finally clear, we can brave the human who loves facing you not love you, but everybody incapable facing, when one likes you very long person turning around to depart.

That kind of arrogant that kind of happiness is nothing left.

Please treasure your side to love you silently the person.

Perhaps, one day, when he really left. You will discover that will not be able to leave each other, will be you, will not be he....